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CHANGE IS THE DRAMA OF LIFE

“What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a butterfly.”  ~Richard Bach

Quotable quotes. I am a bookworm and I absolutely love reading. Books have been my best friends since I know not when and have helped me grow so much as an individual. Reader’s Digest was one of my favorite magazines during my growing up years. It was full of wonderful quotes and I love quotes. I would write them down in my diary. Wonder where the diary is now? Mmmm…

“To put the world in order, we must put the nation in order. To put the nation in order, we must put the family in order. To put the family in order, we must nurture our personal life. To cultivate our personal life, we must first set our hearts right.” ~Confucius

Anyway, when I came across this quote of the great Chinese philosopher, I was very impressed and inspired.

Logical and practical, right? I mean, the quote above, it makes such perfect sense. If you wish to build something, you have to build it brick by brick. To change the world, of course, you must change person by person. Change is inner work, changing for the better…and who better to begin with than oneself?

It made perfect sense…

When life’s like that, who can think of change? …but when you have siblings who annoy you, friends/classmates who rub you on the wrong side, difficult lessons to be learned at school, parents who expect you to do and be at your best, well, life is neither easy nor simple nor straight…

…and as you grow up, does it get any simpler? Nope! Jobs, colleagues, friends, marriage, spouse, children, new relationships, finances, – more challenges, bigger problems, difficult people, demanding situations! It’s as if the whole world is conspiring to make your life difficult!

When everything’s going well, and you are on a high, why would you want to change anything? When life’s going gets tougher, and all we can see is how the world and it’s people are conspiring against you, inner work and change don’t even cross your mind.

“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.” ~Leo Tolstoy

Change? Why me? Yet, we do try to change others, we want to change the world, don’t we? We get married and we try to change the other person. We have kids and we try to mould them. We have friends and we try to fix them. We have colleagues and we try to influence them. It’s as if we are on a personal mission to change others and the world.

Even if we are not actively trying to change others, we secretly and fervently hope, wish and expect the others would change. “It’s only fair, isn’t it? They are the problem, why should I change?” would be a common argument.

“Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you’ll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.” ~Jacob M Braude

Ask anyone who’s facing a difficult situation and they would promptly give you a list of people and/or things that need to change. If only he would be like this, if only she did this, if only this didn’t happen…. yup, everything and everyone except themselves in the world must change.

Why do we resist change? Why is it so? Because, inherently, we know that change is not easy, change is not without pain, change takes time, change is lots of inner work. On top of it, we are plain afraid of facing ourselves, afraid of digging deeper, afraid of discovering our true makeup…

“Faced with the choice between changing one’s mind and proving that there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy on the proof.”  ~John Kenneth Galbraith

All of us want the results of change without having to go through the process of change. We resist change with all our subconscious might, and we go about our lives, telling ourselves that we are very adaptable, that we can adjust with any person or situation. In reality, we “are very open-minded about new things – as long as they’re exactly like the old ones.” (a Charles F. Kettering quote)

Then a time comes in everyone’s life when change is inevitable. It’s either bend or break. We are forced to change. From a caterpillar to a butterfly. We change grudgingly, resisting all the way, afraid of leaving the comfort zone we have built around ourselves.

“If nothing ever changed, there’d be no butterflies.”  ~Author Unknown

How about leading change before it chases you in a race against time? Evolution is law of nature. Growth is a part of life. Metamorphosis/change is synonymous with growth and evolution.

Change is powerful. Change is evolution and growth. Change is changing for the better. Change is refreshing. Change is challenging. Change is constant. Change is consistent. Change is the drama of life. Change is natural and part of nature. Change is inevitable.

So, why not embrace change willingly and lovingly?

Come on, become a change leader, be a change magnet. Lead change before it chases you in a race against time.

Ready for some facts and tips on change? Here are a few facts and tips about change to help you appreciate the power of change, embrace change gladly, and be empowered in the process.

SOME FACTS ON CHANGE

“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.” ~Unknown

Isn’t this a beautiful quote? The first step is to be aware of what you can change and what you cannot. Believe me, not only does it save a whole lot of time and energy… but also plenty of heartache.

FACT #1: Laws of nature/universe are immutable. You cannot change the laws of the nature or the universe. No matter what, the laws are there to stay, the game is underway and you have to abide by the rules. 

FACT #2: Every individual is empowered with freewill. One of the laws of the universe is freewill – human beings are empowered with freewill and have the power to choose. Your thoughts, your actions, your feelings and emotions – these are your choices and an expression of your freewill. Even the universe/god/life respects an individual’s freewill and the right to make choices, it’s only human beings who try to interfere with this law.

FACT #3: We are all different and unique. Also, each person’s energetic makeup is different and their life purpose is different. Each one of us is at different stages in the path of evolution and self-realization. So, what you judge as right and perfect for yourself or others may not be right and perfect for the person next to you – be it your child, spouse, friend, parent, neighbor etc.

“I realized the problem was me and nobody could change me except myself.” ~John Petworth

FACT #4: One can change only oneself. What the above facts imply is that you have no right to change anything or anyone except yourself and no one could change you except yourself.

Attempting to change others would therefore be a futile exercise, prone to frustrations and disappointments, without yielding the results you anticipate. And in case, those people do undergo a change, it’s probably because they wished to change.

THE POWER OF CHANGE

“Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life.” ~Herbert A. Otto

Power$1: You are in control of your life. And why must you change yourself? You are responsible for yourself and your life.   You are on this planet to grow, to evolve and be a better person.

Life is a mirror of yourself. People in your life (- your parents, spouse/partner, children, family, friends, colleagues, etc. -) and the situations that you get into are nothing but a reflection of yourself. Your energetic makeup is responsible for attracting these people and situations. These are the means through which life prods you towards evolution and growth. In other words, change.

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” ~Victor Frankl

Your energetic makeup is a result of your thoughts, feelings, emotions, actions and your habits. If you are facing difficult people or difficult situations, and you wish to change your life, then you ought to change your energetic makeup.

Once you take charge of your energetic makeup and alter it little by little, your life gets transformed. You are no longer dependent on the outside world or the people around you for what you want, for your peace of mind. You gain an inner strength and serenity, which is priceless!

Power$2: You can heal others by healing yourself. The universe is a matrix of energy and everything is connected through invisible (to our naked eye) lines of force. If the universe is a macrocosm, (hu)man is a microcosm, i.e., the entire universe is there inside of you. Sounds impossible and bizarre, right? It is very much true. This is the basis of astrology and the reason why the stars and planets (and the moon) supposedly have an effect on us.

And therefore, there’s a part of you that is associated with every individual on this planet. Healing that part of yourself, changing that part of yourself for the better, not only heals you but also helps in healing that individual. The ancient Hawaiian healing practice of Ho’oponopono is based on this very powerful concept.

A Hawaiian therapist, Dr. Len, used this very principle to heal an entire ward of “criminally insane patients-without ever seeing any of them. The psychologist would study an inmate’s chart and then look within himself to see how he created that person’s illness. As he improved himself, the patient improved.” (You may read the entire story here

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed people can change the world: indeed it’s the only thing that ever has!” ~Margaret Meade

Power$3: You can change the world. The universe is nothing but energy, electromagnetic energy, vibrating at different frequencies that correspond to sound, light and color.

Aura is the electromagnetic field around any mass. Human beings have an aura around them and this aura is determined by the being’s energetic makeup (i.e. thoughts, emotions, actions, habits etc.)

When a person maintains a higher energy, the electromagnetic lines of force around him/her are more aligned, instead of zigzag, and the person becomes a living magnet. Ever heard of people with a magnetic personality? Higher the levels of energy, the more powerful the magnetic lines of force around the person, and therefore higher the person’s ability to attract others.

When people come in contact with such highly magnetic people and maintain sufficient contact, they themselves are transformed. Their lines of force automatically get aligned – just like iron pieces align themselves in presence of a magnet and get magnetized over time.

In India, during ancient times, students went to their guru or teacher’s ashram and stayed with the teacher until their learning was completed (that’s about ten years or more). Constant presence of the teacher was considered to magnetize the students bringing about the transformation and required learning (through induction) in a faster way.

When you start changing for the better, your aura changes. Your aura affects people around you  in a positive way and they get indirectly transformed. Thus, there’s a cascading effect.

To bring about any change in the world, a majority is not required. What is required is a critical mass of people, a small percentage of impassioned and dedicated people. For instance, there are about 6 billion people on this planet. To bring about change in this world, the critical mass would be …. about a million. That’s a very small percentage (~0.016%) but these million people with a focused intention can do wonders. How about being one of them?

When Gandhiji said “Be the change you wish to see in the world“, this is precisely what he meant.

SOME TIPS ON CHANGE

Tip@ 1: Do not attempt to change others. Be it your close family, relatives, friends, colleagues or foes, do not try to change others. Respect their freewill and individuality. Remember, you are not responsible for them, you are responsible for your self.

Tip@ 2: Embrace change willingly, joyfully and gracefully. Change is inevitable. Change is adventure. Change is life. Change is self-realization. When you welcome change and accept it with grace, it can be lots of fun. Adapt and grow.

Tip@3: Change at your own pace. Every person is different, so set your own pace. Don’t compare yourself with others. Don’t be in a hurry to change. Don’t overdo the process and try to fast forward it for better results. Remember, slow and steady wins the race.

Tip@4: Do not resist change. Change is not easy. However, one can reduce the effects of change by flowing along with it.

Tip@5: Be open-minded. This is very important. Change implies growth and evolution. To evolve and step to the next level, it’s important to be open-minded. An unlimited and wider perspective throws open doors of wisdom, presenting infinite possibilities and opportunities.

Tip@6: Listen to your intuition and follow your heart. It’s wiser to tune into your inner self and listen to your intuition. The outside world and the people around you, with their different opinions and advice, can confuse us at times.

Tip@7: Follow life. Life is the greatest teacher. Hold its hand and it’ll walk you down the path of growth and evolution. It’ll show you the best path for you.

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Follow Dharma, be-ness, detachment: Lessons from Ramayana

Festivals Have a Purpose: Inner Work

 We celebrate the New Year twice. On Jan 1st, along with the rest of the world and once again in Mar-Apr. Remember, India is famous for it’s diversity – languages, cuisine, culture, customs etc? We also celebrate umpteen festivals. New Year’s day is one such festival. Each state or region has it’s own New Year day, and is called by different names. Some fall on a fixed date, based on the solar calendar, while some are determined by the position of the moon, based on the lunar calendar.

Ugadi: New Year’s Day. This year, the New Year’s day, also referred to as Ugadi, was celebrated last week. The highlight of this day is the famous Ugadi pachadi or chutney. It’s a mixture of different ingredients: neem flowers, raw mango, tamarind, chilli, jaggery and salt. It is bitter, tangy, sour, spicy, sweet and salty.

The famous Ugadi pachadi. The chutney and it’s different flavors are symbolic of life and serve as a reminder that life brings different experiences (joy, sorrow, disgust, surprise, fear, anger) and one should learn to take them in one’s stride and face them with grace and equanimity. 

The chutney is simply delicious, to say the least. Hmmmm…and I wonder, how many of us would say the same thing about life?

Another festival, Sri Rama Navami. Sri Rama Navami, comes a week after Ugadi, and is widely celebrated in the country marking the birth of Lord Sri Rama, an incarnation of divinity, thousands and thousands of years ago.

Since I love food, I must not forget to mention the highlight of this day. Two items – one is panakam, a sweet drink prepared with jaggery and pepper, and the other is vadapappu, a salad made up of soaked moong lentils, raw mango, green chilli and coconut. Need I say anything more about how these two taste? Just heavenly…

(The items mentioned are just starters, to be eaten first thing in the morning. After a bath, of course. A head bath, first thing in the morning, is a “must” on all festival days. It cleanses any negative energies surrounding oneself, enables positive energies that accompany the sunrise to be received. Of course, it calms the mind, so the activities of the day can be conducted in peace and harmony.)

Festivals are fun. When we were kids, we would look forward to these two festivals. A double treat, in a week’s time – schools are closed, you get to eat amazing food, and you get to listen to wonderful stories. What more could one ask?

Festivals and stories go together. Yup, stories, tons of them. Every festival has it’s own set of stories. While today’s kids watch Superman, He-man, Spiderman, Pokemon, Harry Potter and the likes, we enjoyed the vast treasure of mythological stories.

Typically, the stories would be about the triumph of good over evil, and when you are a kid, nothing is more exciting and fascinating than listening to stories of bravery, heroism, wisdom, and high ideals.

Gods and goddesses, kings and queens, princes and princesses,  demons and devas, sages and saints, animals and birds, trees and plants, magic and magicians, wars and battles, celestial and magical weapons, supernatural forces and events etc…bet they could beat Harry Potter any day!

Wisdom for everyone. The beauty of these stories is that they have been woven with layers and layers of profound symbolism and universal wisdom. And hidden within these layers are the secrets of creation.  Note that the wisdom is timeless and ageless, simple yet profound, practical yet holistic, spiritual yet scientific…complete in all aspects! And to the true seeker, the wisdom is said to reveal itself layer by layer.

Ramayana, an epic poem. One such story is Ramayana, a Sanskrit epic poem, composed by Sage Valmiki, India’s aadi kavi or first poet.  Based on historical events, it narrates the ayana or journey/path of Lord Sri Rama. It demonstrates a life of dharma –  path of righteousness, truth and duty – right behavior in relationships, right discharge of one’s duties, righteous administration of people. Dharma is the way of life. (A brief version of the story is given at the end of this article for those of you who are reading about it for the first time.)

The ideal couple. Now, if you were to ask anyone in India to name someone who lived life with grace and equanimity and took life’s experiences in one’s stride, don’t be surprised if you heard the names of Lord Sri Rama and his wife, Devi Sita. Indians revere and worship them as the adarsh or ideal couple.

The ideal man. Lord Sri Rama is revered as the epitome of virtue. He represents the ideal son, the ideal brother, the ideal husband, the ideal friend, the ideal enemy and the ideal king, and hence maryadapurushottam, the ideal man. Even today, countless people read Ramayana  and chant his name SriRama so they may imbibe his idealism, righteousness, sense of duty, equipoise and grace.

Lord Sri Rama demonstrates many great qualities. Volumes of commentaries and poetry have been composed in his name extolling his many virtues. In short, he is symbolic of the divine potential in each one of us.

What’s the real intent behind festivals? Food, stories, rituals, etc. are certainly an integral part of every festival. But there’s a deeper intent to why we celebrate so many festivals.

It’s a reminder and an opportunity for the being, lost in the activities of the world, to withdraw from the outer world and contemplate on his/her inner/divine self, to gauge how far he/she has come along on the path of self-realization, and to set intentions for further growth and experience. Too often, we forget the deeper purpose as we tend to the external duties and demands of a festival.

You could compare this to project milestones in the business world. Except that you are your own boss, manager and auditor and get to carve out your goals and pace your journey.

Recollecting Lessons from Ramayana

 Recollecting lessons from Ramayana. So, on the occasion of Sri Rama Navami, here’s recollecting some of Lord Sri Rama’s qualities and some lessons from Ramayana – these qualities are nothing new and we all know them. Books have been written and people have spoken on these qualities and principles for ages. These are relevant to all walks of life whether leadership, business, management, ethics, personnel development, sports, politics, spirituality etc.. These are universal and transcend the boundaries of nations, religions and cults.

“Be Impeccable With Your Word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.” ~Don Miguel Ruiz

#1 Manifest the power of speech. Lord Sri Rama is known for being mitabhashi or a person of few words and a mridubhashi, i.e a person who speaks in a soft, gentle, sweet, pleasant and graceful manner. As a result, whatever he spoke was as good as a promise, and he was known to defend his promises with his life (pran jaaye par vachan na jaaye). His word was  obeyed as law by those who followed him. When speech is pure, it has the power to manifest instantly, literally, an order to the universe. Herein lies a wonderful message for all of us.

Sound is the basis  of all creation. Human beings, of all species on this planet, are endowed with the power of speech and hence we are the only creatures vested with the power to co-create our lives. Words and thoughts are energy. What, when and how we utter and speak defines not only who we are but also charts the future course of our lives. It determines the energy we are radiating and therefore who and what we attract into our lives.

Observe your speech, the words you use and how you utter them, and it will give plenty of clues to your current situation in life. Wish to transform your life? Change your words and your thoughts! Judging others and self (e.g. prejudices, interpretations, assumptions and preconceived notions) – is a massive energy drainer. Channelize this energy in a positive way and see your life change.

“The key to winning is poise under stress.” ~Paul Brown

 #2 Maintain balance and equipoise. Unlike his brother Lakshmana, Lord Sri Rama never lost his temper, never acted in haste and was not easily ruffled. He was always and in all ways Captain Cool and Calm. Equanimity and nitya sattwa or eternal poise are his remarkable characteristics.

Three qualities define a person’s state of mind – rajas or dynamism/aggression/domination, tamas or inertia/apathy/lethargy, sattwa or poise/balance. We achieve a  state of nitya sattwa or eternal and absolute poise when we learn to balance and subsequently, transcend these three states.

 The first step is to live a life of balance. Here, balance applies to all areas of our life – speech, thoughts, actions, food, sleep, work, play, finances, etc. Too much of anything or too little of anything can upset the balance, create consequences and bind us in the cycle of karma.

 Revisit your life and your priorities. What areas of your life are balanced and what areas need some balance? Work on balancing one area of life, it will eventually lead you to the other areas and you will be surprised at the outcome.

 “The higher nature in man always seeks for something which transcends itself and yet is its deepest truth; which claims all its sacrifice, yet makes this sacrifice its own recompense. This is man’s dharma, man’s religion, and man’s self is the vessel” ~ Rabindranath Tagore

 #3 Follow dharma fearlessly. Lord Sri Rama demonstrated that one should follow dharma, the path of righteousness, truth and duty, implicitly and fearlessly, irrespective of whether others follow it or not. He followed dharma for the sake of dharma, neither to impress or please anyone, nor to flaunt his greatness and gather people around him.

 Living in today’s world, it’s certainly unimaginable that such people ever lived on the face of this planet. Was it easier then to follow a path of dharma than it is now? The times were certainly different. And life today is certainly challenging to say the least. Dharma or righteousness is certainly not a word in fashion.

 To do or not to do? To be or not to be?

To do/be – then what, how, when, why?

 Following a path of dharma doesn’t fetch big bucks nor does it provide instant gratification in the short run, nor does it bring name and fame. It is apparently confusing, frustrating and full of dilemmas.

 But if it’s your inner calling, and it’s important for you, then follow it fearlessly. Granted the path is not strewn with roses, but be assured, when you are determined to follow dharma, mighty forces of the universe come to your aid, show you the way and lead you all along. Gandhiji proved it once again with his non-violence movement in the last century.

“Leadership is practiced not so much in words as in attitude and in actions.” ~ Harold S. Geneen

 #4 Lead by example. This is, perhaps, one of the most endearing qualities of Lord Sri Rama that he led by example. He was neither a preacher nor a teacher. So, the need to “walk the talk” or “practice what you preach” never arose. He lived, breathed and walked the path of dharma and never talked or preached about it.

As a result, people in large numbers, including his family, friends, teachers, subjects, followed him of their own freewill. His wife, Devi Sita, and brother, Lakshmana, followed him to the forest of their own accord. Even the people of Ayodhya wished to follow him to the forest but he dissuaded them reminding them of their dharma

 Be a leader. Lead by example. Let others follow by choice. Do not attempt to preach, influence, control or force others. Every individual has a freewill and even the universe/god/life doesn’t interfere with that freewill. Honor others freewill.

“Detachment is a plant of slow growth; if you pluck the tender plant to look for the pods, you will be disappointed.” ~ Sri Sathya Sai Baba

 #5 Cultivate balanced detachment. Lord Sri Rama demonstrated detachment, and I must add, the right degree of detachment. Easier said than done, because it’s very easy to swing to extremes of attachment or detachment, like a pendulum.

He was a prince, heir to a vast kingdom, with all the riches and grandeur of the world at his feet. He left all that and went on exile to the forest, without even blinking an eye. His wife, Devi Sita, followed him willingly, leaving the comforts of the royal palace.

They accepted the exile with equanimity and grace. Even in the forests, they lived in contentment, joy and goodwill. They never harbored any bitterness or ill will (towards those who were responsible for their exile), never showed any frustration, nor did they spend their days in despair whining about their change in fates.

 They knew that whatever was happening was happening as per the will of the Divine and they followed the course of life, never attempting to swim against the tide. And ultimately, the exile did have a purpose and reason. Ravana, the demon, who was committing atrocities on humanity had to be killed. And, if not for the exile and Devi Sita’s abduction (by Ravana), that would never have happened.

Even when he became king, Lord Sri Rama demonstrated detachment. He performed his duties with equanimity and detachment, never being attached to the power, duties, pleasures, fame and name, or worldly possessions.

In this age, many believe that Lord Sri Rama and Devi Sita suffered undue hardships and difficulties during the exile. They argue that Lord Sri Rama ought to have fought for his rights instead of bowing meekly to the whims of Kaikeyi. What Lord Sri Rama and Devi Sita demonstrated was inner strength and bliss, and a state of mind that had transcended the illusion of the world and it’s transient pleasures.

We are spiritual beings on a human journey meant to experience different facets of life. The world is a stage and we come here to play a role. When we get too attached to the stage, to the role, to the dress, etc. we forget that we are just an actor. We cross the boundaries set for our role and invite unnecessary hardships on to ourselves.

Practice balanced detachment. Enjoy and live life. Love and welcome love. Perform your duties without attachment to the results. Have no expectations from others. Take life’s experiences in your stride and learn to take them in one’s stride and face them with grace and equanimity. There’s a purpose and reason behind every experience and if we are too attached to our wants and wishes, we can miss the true purpose behind these events. Think but don’t get carried away by your thoughts, act but don’t get carried away by your actions.

“Success in any endeavor requires single-minded attention to detail and total concentration.”  ~ Willie Sutton

#6 Focus on your goal with single-mindedness. Lord Sri Rama was renowned for his skills in archery. It is said that he rarely missed his target, which means one arrow was sufficient to reach his target . Such was his prowess, focus, clarity and accuracy. Sages and rishis would seek his help to overcome demons that were harassing them because they believed in his success.

One comes across challenges, obstacles and limitations in life. It’s all part of the journey. These are nothing but distractions.  To reach one’s goals, one needs to stay focused and not be swayed by the many distractions. When you follow the other principles given here, you automatically free up huge amounts of energy that allow you to focus in this present moment.

Be clear on what you want. Channelize your energies in the right direction. Do not let fears from the past or worries about the future (these are the demons in our lives) drain your energies from the present moment. The present is all that there is. Be in the moment and stay focused.

“No heart that holds onto a right desire can tread the road of loss” ~Lord Krishna in Bhagavad Gita

#7 Hold on to the right desire. Why did Devi Sita desire a golden deer? Didn’t she know the consequences? What would have happened if she ignored the golden deer? The rest of the story would never have happened and Lord Sri Rama would not have killed the demon Ravana. Since the whole purpose of Lord Sri Rama taking a human birth was to bring an end to Ravana’s atrocities on the planet, this drama had to take place.

However, to the common man, it holds a message. In Ramayana, Devi Sita demonstrated that by desiring something that was not a necessity, she lets her lower self bind her. The lower self in each one of us is our personality, comprising of our emotions, thoughts, actions, and desires and when not channeled in the right direction towards a purpose of love and goodwill, the consequences bind us in the cycle of Karma.

Desire by itself is not wrong. Hold on to the right desire so that you are not bound by the consequences of your thoughts and actions in a cycle of karma. Also see @4 Sundarakanda

Symbolism in Ramayana, and it’s Significance

 “The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” ~Albert Einstein

@1 The power of buddhi or intuition. Symbolically, Lord Sri Rama represents paramatma or the universal soul or universal consciousness, Lakshmana represents ahankara or the ego or localized consciousness, Bharatha represents Buddhi or intuition and Shatrughana represents Chit or mind. Thus, the four brothers together symbolize the human being.

 What’s the symbolism here? Lakshmana and Shatrughana are born twins, i.e. one’s ego and mind are born together. But Lakshmana always followed Lord Sri Rama and Shatrughana always followed Bharatha while Bharatha was ever devoted to Lord Sri Rama.

 Here’s the message for us – our ego should rise above individual and localized consciousness and orient towards universal consciousness, because when left to itself, it is prone to self-destruction.

The mind should always orient towards intuition because the intuition is forever oriented towards the source. If the mind is oriented towards intuition, then there is no conflict and confusion because the intuition is always oriented towards the universal soul or the universe.

Since the universe is the source of infinite wisdom and has the answer to every question and solution to every challenge, the above orientation ensures that even though we live in this world, we are not bound by the world and our own personal limitations.

The world is a challenging place and it’s easy to get lost in the wilderness of distractions. Instead, focus on the inner world. Reach into your depths and tune into your inner self, your higher self. Consult your intuition while thinking and let thinking precede your actions. Stay connected to the source, the infinite source of all wisdom.

@2 Srirama mantra. According to ancient scriptures (whether Indian, Christian, Egyptian, Greek or Jewish), sound (along with color and number) is the basis of all creation.

The universe is, supposedly, comprised of seven planes (physical, emotional, mental, causal, intuitional or buddhic, soul or atmic, universal soul or paramatmic), each plane further comprising of seven planes, and thus, forty-nine planes in total. It is said that a seed sound or bija akshara is responsible for the creation of each subplane. Thus, forty-nine letters form the forty nine sub-planes. These forty nine letters form the forty-nine alphabets of the ancient language Sanskrit.

A human being is a microcosmos and hence has all the seven planes and forty-nine subplanes within the body. The seven chakras or energy centers in the body correspond to the seven planes. These are situated in the subtle body along the spinal chord – from the tip of the spine to the crown of the head in an ascending order. The three lower planes (physical, emotional, mental) form the lower self, the next three planes form the higher self.

Mantras are sound formulae coined by ancient seers, adept in the science of sound. Uttering these mantras consciously and correctly, have impact on the mind. These are commonly perceived as glorifying and appeasing different gods and goddesses, when in reality, they embody various cosmic principles. Uttering them activates/invokes these cosmic principles in us, which lay dormant otherwise, thanks to lifetimes of non-use and inappropriate use (like a muscle in our body that’s never used becomes weak).

SriRaMa is thus one such mantra. RA/R is the seed sound of the cosmic fire*, MA/M for nature or mula prakriti and SRI is the resulting splendor of the two, the universe – together they define the cosmos completely. Since, man is a microcosmos, chanting of this mantra helps one to burn the impurities of the three lower planes, purifies the mind, thus paving the way for the realization of the divine/macrocosmos in us.

*Native Americans refer to the Sun God as RHA. To the ancient Egyptians,  Amun-RA is the God of Fire. According to Greek mythology, God RA is the symbol of Light, of immortality and eternity.

@3 Sri Rama Koti. From ancient most times, Indians have believed in uttering and writing this mantra 1,00,00,000 times, also called as Ramakoti. The seven zeroes represent the seven planes (10^7) and the 1 before it represents the Absolute beyond the seven planes of creation.

The reason it is 10^7 and not 10×7? Well, one’s potential increases exponentially as one moves up the planes…something worth considering:)

@4 Desires, Lord Hanuman and Sundarakanda. In Ramayana, it’s symbolically shown that Devi Sita was abducted by Ravana (our lower self) and held captive on an island surrounded by waters (of our desires and emotions). The three brothers, Ravana, Kumbhakarna and Vibheeshana symbolize the three qualities of rajas or aggression/dynamism, tamas or inertia, and sattwa or poise respectively. These three qualities define our personality.

Devi Sita’s innermost desire to be united with her husband is symbolic of our very own thirst to realize our true selves. Our earnest desire to be re-united with the Source brings a guru or teacher into our lives, who helps us channelize our desires, emotions and thoughts in the right direction, so we may uplift ourselves and realize our higher self. 

In Ramayana, Lord Hanuman symbolizes the teacher. When he reached the island in search of Devi Sita, and set fire to Ravana’s palace, it is symbolic of the teacher purifying the unwanted emotions, desires and thoughts in the student. Lord Hanuman also symbolizes pure devotion to the source – i.e. complete orientation of lower self towards the higher self, also implying one who has conquered the mind or man.

Later, following his lead, the monkey army led by Lord Sri Rama, built a bridge across the waters. This symbolizes the orientation of the lower self towards the higher self enabling the descent of divine energy into us and freeing us from our limitations.

Sundarakanda, the part that describes Lord Hanuman’s exploits in Lanka, is the most popularly read part of Ramayana – since it symbolic of the inner work we need to do on ourselves to be released from the cycles of Karma and unleash our divine potential. (There are six parts in Valmiki’s Ramayana, the six parts corresponding to the lower six chakras in us.)

@5 Ravana and his death. Ravana has ten heads – the ten heads symbolize the ten vices that bind the personality. There are many other interpretations regarding the number ten.

In a fierce battle, Lord Sri Rama kills Ravana. The death of Ravana symbolizes the transcendence of our higher self over our lower self or the personality. The being (symbolized by Devi Sita) is thus liberated and reunited with the universal soul laying the foundation for the kingdom of dharma or rama rajya in the body. Lord Sri Rama crowns Vibheeshana as the king of Lanka before returning to Ayodhya – i.e. the lower self is restored to a state of balance and poise.

The battle lasts for ten days. Why ten? Nine layers seperate the being from the Source:

Divine nature (mulaprakriti)

Three qualities of rajas, tamas and sattwa (trimurti)

Five elements of space, air, fire, water and earth (panchabhoothas)

The absolute is the tenth one beyond these nine. Thus, the ten day battle signifies the kundalini shakti or Devi Sita being released from muladhara or Lanka, crossing the nine layers and being reunited with the source.

Story of Ramayana – a brief version

Here is a brief version of the story of Ramayana. For a detailed version, please refer to wikipedia. For those of you new to Sanskrit/Indian names, beware of the tongue twisters:)

King Dasaratha of Ayodhya has three wives, Kaushalya, Kaikeyi and Sumitra. He is childless for a long time. Desiring a heir, he conducts a fire ritual. Consequently, the three queens give birth to four sons, Kaushalya to Sri Rama, Kaikeyi to Bharatha, Sumithra to twins Lakshmana and Shatrughana. Sri Rama and Lakshmana are inseparable and so are Bharatha and Shatrughana. Lakshmana follows Sri Rama everywhere with the latter making sure he does, Shatrughana follows Bharatha everywhere, while Bharatha looks up to Sri Rama all the time.

Sri Rama wins the hand of Devi Sita in her swayamvar (In those days, a princess chose the husband from an assembly of eligible kings and princes, especially invited for that purpose.)

King Dasaratha wishes to make Sri Rama as crown prince of Ayodhya. Kaikeyi, instigated by her maid and roused by jealousy, claims two boons that Dasaratha had granted her long ago. One, that Bharatha should be made crown prince, and two, that Sri Rama be banished to exile in the forest for fourteen years. Sri Rama leaves for the forest accompanied by his wife Devi Sita and brother Lakshmana.

Bharatha, who is away at that time, returns and learns of the events. He refuses the throne and follows Sri Rama to the forest in order to persuade him to come back and take his rightful place. Sri Rama, a stickler to righteousness and duty, refuses to return before the period of exile. Bharatha returns back to Ayodhya with Sri Rama’s sandals, places them on the throne and rules as Sri Rama’s regent.

Sri Rama, Devi Sita and Lakshmana spend years roaming the forests, meeting sages and saints and living a life of meditation, peace and serenity. One day, a golden deer captivates Devi Sita. She requests that Sri Rama bring the deer to her. The deer is a ploy by Ravana to abduct Devi Sita, in his bid to seek revenge. He succeeds in abducting her and holds her prisoner on his island.

Ravana is demon king of Lanka, an island surrounded with water. He has two brothers, Kumbhakarna and Vibheeshana. Kumbhakarna is in a state of perpetual slumber. Even though Vibheeshana is a half demon, he follows the path of righteousness, and boldly protests the wrong deeds of his brother.

In their search for Devi Sita, Sri Rama and Lakshmana come across the Vanaras. Sugriva is their king and Lord Hanuman is his minister. With the help of the Vanara army, Sri Rama and Lakshmana reach Lanka. Ravana rejects all peace overtures. He is finally killed in a battle lasting ten days. Vibheeshana is crowned king of Lanka. Sri Rama, accompanied by his wife and brother, return to their kingdom, and is crowned king of Ayodhya.

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Imbibe and Spread the Energy of Synthesis

“Love is the affinity which links and draws together the elements of the world… Love, in fact, is the agent of universal synthesis.” ~Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

I was in third grade when we moved from one state to another state, both being different from my home state where I was born. You’re probably wondering what’s the big deal in that. Well, it was indeed a big deal – back then.

I come from a country comprising of 25+ states, 22+ languages and nearly 2000 dialects. Even though we share a common and rich cultural heritage and a history dating back to thousands of years, each state has its own distinct language/dialect, cuisine, culture and customs. “Unity in diversity” is a slogan most often used to describe the nation.

I was seven when we moved to this new state and it was like moving to a whole new world where people spoke a different language, had different customs and mannerisms.

It was difficult in the beginning, especially at school – using sign language, struggling to understand what others were saying, and then mumbling words incoherently pretending to answer them back. 

Imagine being looked at as if you came from Mars! Classmates made fun of your state, language, your culture, your food, your accent, and what not. And when the textbooks claimed that your state lagged behind in industrial growth, production of rice etc. etc., you wished you could hide under the desk in shame as if it were a moment of personal tragedy.

Pride kept you from sharing your miseries with your parents! Not when they put your younger brother in the same school expecting you, the big sister, to take care of him.

As days rolled into months, it’s not long before you learned to speak the language … time to bully the bullies…grrr!

“So, you think we eat only idli ( a savory cake made out of rice and lentils) and sambar  (a lentil soup) for breakfast, lunch and dinner? Do you fill your tummies with rosogolla (a regional sweet delicacy made out of a type of fresh cheese) the whole day?”

It doesn’t end there. A country famous for it’s umpteen deities, religious fervor sneaked into the arguments and fights.

“My god is greater than your god. My god has eight arms while yours has only two.”

“Oh, but mine has four heads while yours has only one.”

“So what, mine is mounted on a tiger, yours has only a little mouse.”

 (Note: The umpteen deities represent the various cosmic principles. Heads, arms, mounts, colors, sounds etc used to depict the deities are symbolic of the different qualities and characteristics. Since imagery and visualization are such effective tools for manifestation, ancient seers conjured different ways to help the common man realize his/her divine potential. Sadly, however, the deeper spiritual significance has been lost over centuries and the superficial religious connotation has gained popularity.)

Eventually, peace was made, enemies became friends, lunch boxes were shared (because your mom made such boring food but theirs’ made all that amazing stuff), … and you loved one another as family.

Mind you, all this took time and effort.

How the times have changed since then! Adapting to a different state no longer is a challenge.

Technology flattens the world. With television and cable network, and a proliferation of regional and educational channels, awareness grew. People learned more about their country than they ever did before. Earlier, travel and reading were perhaps the only  means, now, you could do that sitting in your living room.

Then came the computer and software boom. Internet, cell phone, home PCs and laptops became common.

Technology has made communication and information sharing faster and easier. Not just a nation, technology has flattened the world bringing cultures and people together like never before. Business travel, tourism, proliferation of airlines etc. indirectly contributed to the flattening.

Then there’s social media, Facebook, Twitter, MySpace…today’s challenge is no longer adapting to a new culture or state but having Facebook friends or Twitter followers spanning across cultures, states and even nations. Numbers count and going global is the trend.

Any surprise that today’s revolutions are driven by the internet, (i)phones and social media?

People’s voice of freedom leads to political upheavals. Talking of revolutions, brings me to the political upheavals storming through the world today. In fact, not just today – let’s go back a hundred years or so. Two world wars, end of colonialism, third world emergence, Gandhi’s non-violence movement, Luther King’s struggle for the advancement of civil rights in US and around the world, end of the cold war, collapse of the Iron Curtain (remember the Berlin Wall?), etc.

It’s the birthright of every individual to enjoy freedom of expression and the right to live…for centuries, rights of people around the world were suppressed by power-hungry rulers and autocrats. Suppression leads to expression sooner or later as history has proven time and again.

Companies forced to go back to basics. The corporate world had it’s good share  of ups and downs, upheavals and crisis.

Companies crossed borders, investing multi-nationally, creating job opportunities and spreading wealth across the globe.

Anderson and Enron scandals raised questions on ethics and crooked practices. The sub-prime crisis, a result of greed and avarice, triggered a recession bankrupting major financial giants, leaving many unemployed one fine morning. The BP oil spill, a consequence of negligence and arrogance, endangered the environment, wildlife, habitat, health, livelihoods – impact that might affect generations to come.

All these are proving how interconnected and interdependent we are, that profits caanot be the only goal for businesses.

Economy is truly global. Any event in any part of the world – political, technological, scientific, natural etc. impacts the stock markets performance across the globe. Whether it’s a tsunami or an earthquake in Japan, the sub-prime crisis in the US, people’s revolutions in the Middle-east, our destinies are all inter-twined through the common thread that binds us all – the economy.

Groundbreaking experiments, discoveries and inventions in science. Discovery of the atom and electron, dual nature of electron- particle and a wave, Einstein’s famous E=mc2 stating that energy and matter are the same, nuclear energy, electricity, wind energy, solar power, leaf power, aeroplanes, automobiles, etc; experiments proving plants have consciousness, that human beliefs have impact on the biology of the body, the power of the mind; major leaps in medical science – sophisticated surgeries, organ transplants, stem cell research, vaccines, artificial limbs, etc.

All these are changing the world.

Nature’s fury wreaks havoc, yet brings people together. On the natural front – tsunamis, earthquakes, hurricanes, typhoons, cyclones, and other natural calamities are wreaking havoc. There has been widespread devastation, innumerable loss of life and property and heartbreaking tragedy.

Nations and people have come forth offering support in whatever way they can in an outpouring of aid, relief, rescue teams, … and prayers. Innumerable stories of bravery, heroism, kindness, miracle survivors etc. inspire millions across the world as people invoked their higher selves and rose to the occasion.

Environmental awareness on the rise, better late than never! Effects of misuse of technology are being felt, especially, in the food world. Antibiotics, artificial growth hormones, pesticides, genetically modified food sources, packaged and highly processed food are taking their toll. The world is realizing how dangerous it is to interfere in nature’s ways and to treat human bodies, animals and plants as mechanical bodies to be messed up with. Dis-eases of all kinds are on the rise. Rising awareness is driving people towards organic farming, natural and whole food sources, holistic medicine (naturopathy, homeopathy, ayurveda, energy medicine, reiki, pranic treatment etc)

Massive and selfish exploitation of plant, animal and mineral kingdoms has led to depletion of natural resources, ecological imbalance, changing weather conditions with potentially dangerous consequences and other environmental disasters.

Realizing the already happening and potential consequences of our actions in the past decades, governments, corporates, non-profit organizations, communities and individuals across the world are coming together to promote a greener earth.

More and more people seek meaning and purpose of living. Religious fanaticism, killing in the name of religion, religious intolerance, bureaucracy of organized religion have disillusioned people all over the world driving them to seek answers for themselves. People are yearning for balance – a balance between spirituality and materialism.

Spiritual awareness is on the rise. Spiritual leaders, including the Dalai Lama, and scientists from across the world are coming together to discuss and share. Human Unity conferences are being held with interfaith leaders. Spirituality and science – a marriage is on the cards in the years to come.

Spiritual fusion of East and West is happening. Spiritual concepts from the great scriptures, Bhagavad Gita, Tao Te Ching, Bible, Koran etc, crystallized,  complicated, misinterpreted (for self-aggrandizement) over the years, are being presented afresh in a simple manner for people to understand and follow.

Lessons and universal laws from these sources of ageless and timeless wisdom are being woven into management and business streams, shaping business policies.

Social and cultural landscape is changing. Inter-religious, inter-cultural, inter-racial, inter-national, inter-caste marriages (or unions /partnerships) have become commonplace.

Shackles of male dominance, prevalent for centuries and taken for granted, are being broken surely and steadily, as more and more women are making their presence felt in all spheres and forms of life.

Conventions and age-old rigid rules are being broken by younger generations while the older generations bemoan diminishing authority and respect and degrading values.

More and more people are breaking superficial barriers and peeling layers and layers of false pride, illusion of greatness, fear of dilution of one’s legacy, social hypocrisy etc which bound generations of people.

Conventions, rules, traditions and customs were designed to create order and discipline so people can pursue self-realization, the ultimate goal of being on this planet, in harmony and peace. However, over centuries,  the means were given more importance than the goal itself. Bound by the means, humans forgot all about self-realization and their true nature. Basic human principles of love, kindness and at-one-ment were sacrificed in the name of conventions, rules and traditions.

Now, why am I rambling? Now, you are really wondering where I am headed with all this rambling. Please note that the above examples are just a representative sample and not a comprehensive list. The world has been changing at a rapid pace and there have been massive upheavals in all walks of life. The events apparently appear as unconnected, disparate and isolated that it’s sometimes difficult to figure out where we are headed.

But there’s a definite direction, an underlying theme and a subtle goal behind all these global events – synthesis. Let me explain. In spiritual and astrological circles, all these changes are attributed to the transition from the Piscean Age to Aquarius Age (and apparently, this is just one of the many cosmic events taking place right now) with the planet Uranus spearheading the change at a mind-boggling speed.

Bye bye Piscean Age. For nearly the last two thousand years, the world has been driven by materialism, external things, greatness, power, conflict, self-aggrandizement, avarice, greed, domination of masculine (yang) energies, analysis, divisiveness etc – all characteristic of the Piscean Age. Human beings forgot their true nature and consciousness took a major dip. (Please note that not everything is not negative about the Piscean Age.)

Welcome Aquarian Age. We are stepping into the Aquarian Age characterized by spirituality, inner power, expansion of consciousness, goodness, collaboration and sharing, balance of masculine (yang) and feminine (yin) energies (feminine energies will be dominating for some time so the balance can occur), synthesis etc.

Synthesis and At-one-ment. In short, synthesis is the word, also referred to in some circles as at-one-ment – which means that we are all connected, we are all part of one cosmic being – the “we” includes the human, animal, plant and mineral kingdom, and the countless celestial globes and the infinite space – and every thought/action of ours has an impact on the rest of us. And unless we realize this basic tenet of our very existence, self-realization, peace, happiness, abundance, harmony etc. will remain mere concepts and words in books.

But, are we ready for the change? Yes and no. The transition can be compared to a vehicle changing gears. Many of us are not belted and are not ready for the change and are feeling the jerks pretty badly.

We are encountering challenges, obstacles, stumbling blocks, crisis, at all levels – individual, family, community, national and global in the form of crisis, difficult situations and difficult people. Why? Because people have ignored repeated warnings for centuries forcing the universe/mother nature to take drastic measures…lest (hu)mankind destroy itself!

So, what can we do?

Well, basically, shake yourself from slumber, recognize that dawn is breaking and it’s time to wake up, to rise and shine. Flow with the principles of the Aquarian Age…

Collaboration and cooperation is key. Selfish motives are gonna boomerang big time. Collaborate and cooperate whether it’s at home, work or at play.

Group consciousness and group living. Look beyond individual needs. Individual consciousness has to expand to group consciousness – groups being families, teams, communities, organizations, nations, world in that ever increasing order. Say goodbye to personal agendas . Work and live for the greater welfare of life on the planet.

Service with a non-profit motive. Serve others selflessly and with a non-profit motive. Serving human, animal, plant and mineral kingdoms is the fastest way to dissolve negative karma we have accumulated over lifetimes.

Giving, sharing and distribution. Give, give, and give more. Don’t let energies stagnate by stocking up and building barriers – whether it’s love, water, money or resources – energy needs to flow constantly.

The apparent scarcity of resources will disappear when we follow this principle, scarcity is an illusion created by the mind.

Non-judgment is the way. See others through a lens of non-judgment. Everyone is on a journey of growth, change and self-realization. No one is perfect. Judging one another is nothing but a massive energy drainer and a waste of time.

Change is inevitable. If growth has to happen, change is inevitable. Listen to life and be willing to change. Be a change leader.

Love is the greatest synthesizer. Love heals wounds. Love makes the world go round. Love unites and restores. Love is magical. Love is divine. Love your spouse. Love your kids. Love your family. Love thy neighbor. Love the plants and love the animals. Love nature. Let love flow from you and through you.

Following dharma. Pursue the path of righteousness and perform your duties with gratitude, love, and kindness.

Prayers make a HUGE difference. Pray for yourself, pray for others, pray for the world. Pray that any negative energies on the planet be dissolved in the pure light of the divine. Pray that all be blessed with food and shelter and may all kingdoms experience harmony, abundance, peace, joy and love.

“svasti prajabhyam paripalayantham nyayeana margena mahim maheesah

gobrahmanebhya shubamsthu nityam lokah samastha sukhino bhavanthu

om shanti shanti shanti hi”

 

May all beings live well;

May the governments serve their people righteously;

May the givers and the wise  grow in number and live well forever;

May all the beings in all the worlds be happy;

Peace, peace and peace be everywhere!

 

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